i can bear with "accidents"

Nobody should be called an asshole unless we can read them like an opened book. I like to observe people, how he reacts, how she behaves, but now I realised it just the cover of the book. No matter how sensitive I am. This thing crossed my brain when I realised that right now someone would think that I'm an asshole, but I accept it even though I know it's completely wrong. This is only a gentle suggestion I suppose.